The Meaning of Memorial Day

The following was shared by Tom DeVries, Lead Pastor of Fair Haven Ministries in Hudsonville, MI. He received it from his friend, Mike Atkinson.

As we move toward Memorial Weekend, and look to think, thank, and remember veterans this weekend, Tom shares a story from Mike (the father of a Marine), which I believe will touch your heart and help you reflect on what Monday means to us as Americans. It may be a little long, but worth the read. I'm sure there are some that roll their eyes about this holiday, others that find meaning only as the official start of summer, but for others the meaning of this day is special, and even more, personal.

As you reflect on Memorial Day, may you be reminded that for all, God has truly shed His grace on thee.


CEMETERY WATCHMAN

I just wanted to get the day over with and go down to Smokey's. Sneaking a look at my watch I saw the time - 1655. Five minutes to go before the cemetery gates are closed for the day. Full dress was hot in the August sun. Oklahoma summertime was as bad as ever - the heat and humidity at the same level - both too high.

I saw the car pull into the drive - a '69 or '70 model Cadillac Deville, looked factory-new. It pulled into the parking lot at a snail's pace. An old woman got out so slowly I thought she was paralyzed; she had a cane and a sheaf of flowers - about four or five bunches as best I could tell.

I couldn't help myself. The thought came unwanted, and left a slightly bitter taste: 'She's gonna spend an hour, and for this old Marine, my hip hurts and I'm ready to get out of here right now!' But for this day, my duty was to assist anyone coming in.

Kevin would lock the In gate and if I could hurry the old biddy along, we might make it to Smokey's in time.

I broke post attention. My hip made gritty noises when I took the first step and the pain went up a notch. I must have made a real military sight: middle-aged man with a small pot gut and half a limp, in Marine full-dress uniform, which had lost its razor crease about thirty minutes after I began the watch at the cemetery.

I stopped in front of her, halfway up the walk. She looked up at me with an old woman's squint.

"Ma'am, may I assist you in any way?"

She took long enough to answer.

"Yes, son. Can you please carry these flowers? I seem to be moving a tad slow these days."

"My pleasure, ma'am." Well, it wasn't TOO much of a lie.

She looked again. "Marine, where were you stationed?"

"Vietnam, ma'am. Ground-pounder. '69 to '71."

She looked at me closer. "Wounded in action, I see. Well done, Marine. I'll be as quick as I can."

I lied a little bigger: "No hurry, ma'am."

She smiled and winked at me. "Son, I'm 85-years-old and I can tell a lie from a long way off. Let's get this done. Might be the last time I can do this. My name's Joanne Wieserman, and I've a few Marines I'd like to see one more time."

"Yes, ma 'am. At your service."

She headed for the World War I section, stopping at a stone. She picked one of the flowers out of my arm and laid it on top of the stone. She murmured something I couldn't quite make out. The name on the marble was Donald S. Davidson, USMC: France 1918.

She turned away and made a straight line for the World War II section, stopping at one stone. I saw a tear slowly tracking its way down her cheek. She put a bunch on a stone; the name was Stephen X. Davidson, USMC, 1943.

She went up the row a ways and laid another bunch on a stone, Stanley J. Wieserman, USMC, 1944.

She paused for a second. "Two more, son, and we'll be done."

I almost didn't say anything, but, "Yes, ma'am. Take your time."

She looked confused. "Where's the Vietnam section, son? I seem to have lost my way."

I pointed with my chin. "That way, ma'am."

"Oh!", she chuckled quietly. "Son, me and old age ain't too friendly."

She headed down the walk I'd pointed at. She stopped at a couple of stones before she found the ones she wanted. She placed a bunch on Larry Wieserman, USMC, 1968, and the last on Darrel Wieserman, USMC, 1970. She stood there and murmured a few words I still couldn't make out.

"OK, son, I'm finished. Get me back to my car and you can go home."

"Yes, ma'am. If I may ask, were those your kinfolk?"

She paused. "Yes, Donald Davidson was my father, Stephen was my uncle, Stanley was my husband, Larry and Darrel were our sons. All killed in action. All Marines."

She stopped. Whether she had finished, or couldn't finish, I don't know. She made her way to her car, slowly and painfully.

I waited for a polite distance to come between us and then double-timed it over to Kevin, waiting by the car.

"Get to the Out gate quick! I have something I've got to do."

Kevin started to say something, but saw the look I gave him. He broke the rules to get us there down the service road. We beat her. She hadn't made it around the rotunda yet.

"Kevin, stand at attention next to the gatepost. Follow my lead." I humped it across the drive to the other post.

When the Cadillac came puttering around from the hedges and began the short straight traverse to the gate, I called in my best gunny's voice: "TehenHut! Present haaaarms!"

I have to hand it to Kevin; he never blinked an eye - full dress attention and a salute that would make his Drill Instructor proud.

She drove through that gate with two old, worn-out Marines giving her a send-off she deserved, for service rendered to her country, and for knowing duty, honor and sacrifice.

I am not sure, but I think I saw a salute returned from that Cadillac.

[forwarded by Ken Davis, the proud son of a war hero]

Spring Cleaning Tips: 10 Simple Steps for a Greener and Healthier Home

Spring and "springtime" refer to the season between Winter and Summer, and broadly to ideas of rebirth, renewal and regrowth. We are now fully experiencing the Spring season--flowers and trees are blooming, and some of us are opening their windows for the first time in months. Many in northern climates experience Spring Cleaning this time of year--cleaning a house from top to bottom in the first warm Spring days of the year. This can be a daunting task for some of us but I found a book that really helps break it down into easy steps--and they are healthy, too!

 

A few years ago, Sloan Barnett came out with a book that cuts through the complexity of getting clean and green in our homes. Below is an excerpt that is worth repeating.
For more info on Sloan's book, please refer to
http://greengoeswitheverything.com/about.html








Sloan's 10 Simple Steps for a Greener and Healthier Home:

1. Start by replacing a bunch of your cleaners (your general spray cleaner, glass cleaner, counter top cleaner, floor and bathroom cleaners) with a natural, nontoxic all-purpose cleaner. You will only need one to do that. Really!
2. Replace your laundry detergent with a natural nontoxic one so the clothes you wear and the sheets you sleep on have no fumes for you to breathe.
3. Go to your bathroom and read the shampoo, makeup and moisturizer labels. Ask yourself, “Do I really need scent in these products?” Take stock of all of your other products and try to replace one a week with a safer, greener choice.
4. Use BPA-free plastic baby bottles and fill them with breast milk or organic formula. Choose powdered formula over canned formula to avoid BPA leaching from the can-lining.
5. Pay attention (without freaking out) to the toys you buy for your kids. Avoid lead paint and soft plastics that contain phthalates.
6. Shop the perimeter of the grocery store and avoid processed food. Even better, choose organic and locally grown meats, dairy, fruits, and vegetables.
7. Try to get the plastic containers out of your kitchen and replace them with glass containers.
8. Make a vow to stop buying bottled water—NOW. Instead, buy a water filter pitcher and keep two in your fridge at all times.
9. For cleaner and healthier air, open your windows once a day when the outside temperature is comfortable.
10. When buying new stuff for your home, focus on green products especially mattresses and carpets. 

Want to learn more about how your household products may be contributing toward your "Body Burden" with the amount of harmful chemicals and pollutants you have in your blood? Start below with the Body Burden Quiz:

http://greengoeswitheverything.com/quiz.html



Want to know more about Green, Safe, Powerful cleaning products that Always Work? Let me know and I'll share some Clean Fun facts with you.
~Cheryl

FIBER

Would you agree that most people today do not get enough fiber in their diets?

Need to increase your FIBER intake?

• Get your fiber from a variety of sources
• Bran, oatmeal, beans, fruits, berries, raw vegetables & whole grains
• Eat lots of fresh fruits & vegetables
• At least 2 servings of fruit & 3 servings of vegetables each day
• Use legumes in your meals
• Aim for several times per week
• Use bran cereal or add it to your foods
• Cereals, Salads & Yogurt; Be sure to store bran in the refrigerator
• Use 100% whole grains & brown rice
• Read the label, many restaurants will substitute.
• Add berries, nuts & dried fruits to your foods
• Cereal & Salads—be creative
• Use real foods rather than purified fiber
• Increase your fiber intake slowly

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